Every relationship has those days that deserve more than a plain “Happy Special Day” text — an anniversary, a birthday, a random Tuesday when you just want your partner to feel loved.
But sitting with a blank message box and a blinking cursor, trying to turn real feelings into the right words, is harder than it sounds. This collection of 350+ special day wishes for your lover is built to solve exactly that problem — whether you need something deeply emotional, short and sweet, playful, or made for a long-distance relationship.
Use these as they are, or as a starting point to add your own personal touch — the guidance section further down will show you exactly how.
Heart-Touching Special Day Wishes for Your Lover
Deeply Emotional Love Wishes
- Loving you has taught me what it feels like to finally come home. Happy special day to the person who holds my whole heart.
- Before you, I didn’t know a person could feel like peace and adventure at the same time. Thank you for being both.
- You are the quiet comfort at the end of my hardest days and the excitement at the start of my best ones.
- On this special day, I just want you to know — loving you is the easiest, most natural thing I have ever done.
- Every version of my future has you in it. That’s how I know this is real.
- You didn’t just walk into my life, you rearranged it — for the better, in every single way.
- I used to wonder what “the one” meant. Then I met you, and every question disappeared.
- My heart found its home in you, and it has never once wanted to leave.
- Thank you for loving me on the days I forget how to love myself. Happy special day, my always.
- If loving you is the only thing I get right in this life, I will still call it a life well lived.
Romantic Special Day Wishes
- You are the kind of love people write songs about, and I get to live it every single day.
- Every moment with you feels like a scene I never want to end.
- Your smile is still my favorite thing in this world, no matter how many times I see it.
- I fall for you a little more every day, and today is no exception.
- With you, ordinary days turn into memories I’ll treasure forever.
- You make my heart skip in a way no one else ever has.
- Being yours is the most beautiful thing that has ever happened to me.
- I still get butterflies when I think about you — and I hope that never changes.
- Your love feels like sunlight on the coldest days of my life.
- Happy special day to the one who makes love feel effortless and real.
Short Heartfelt Love Wishes
- You + me = forever. Happy special day, love.
- My heart chose you, and it never once looked back.
- You are my favorite person, today and always.
- Loving you is my favorite habit.
- Forever grateful you’re mine.
- You make my world softer.
- Simply put — I adore you.
- You’re my best decision.
- My heart beats for you.
- Always you. Only you.
Sweet Wishes for Someone You Love
- You have this way of making ordinary moments feel special just by being in them.
- Being loved by you feels like a gift I get to unwrap every day.
- You are proof that soft, gentle love still exists.
- Thank you for being the sweetest part of my everyday life.
- Your kindness makes loving you incredibly easy.
- You turn my bad days into good ones just by texting me back.
- I love the little things about you the most — your laugh, your patience, your heart.
- You are my favorite notification, my favorite hello, my favorite goodbye.
- Loving you feels like warm tea on a cold morning — comforting, familiar, needed.
- You make being loved look this simple, and I’m grateful every day for it.
Special Day Wishes for Your Girlfriend

Heart-Touching Wishes for Her
- You are the softest, strongest, most beautiful part of my life. Happy special day, love.
- Every day I fall for the way you see the world, and the way you make me see it too.
- You didn’t just capture my heart — you gave it a reason to beat harder.
- I love watching you shine, knowing I get to call you mine.
- You are the calm in my chaos and the light in my darkest days.
- Nobody has ever made me feel as understood as you do.
- Your love feels like it was made specifically to fit my life.
- I never believed in “meant to be” until I met you.
- You are the reason I believe in soft, real, unshakable love.
- Happy special day to the girl who turned my life into something beautiful.
Deep Emotional Messages for Girlfriend
- You’ve seen the messiest parts of me and chose to stay anyway. That means more than you know.
- I don’t just love who you are — I love who I become when I’m with you.
- You’re not just my girlfriend, you’re my favorite person to grow up with.
- Loving you has been the most honest thing I’ve ever done.
- Every fight, every laugh, every quiet night — I’d choose all of it again with you.
- You make me want to be better, not because I’m not enough, but because you deserve my best.
- There’s a version of me that only exists because you loved him into being.
- I don’t need grand gestures to feel lucky — just you, exactly as you are.
- You are my safe place in a world that isn’t always kind.
- Thank you for loving me patiently, gently, and completely.
Sweet Messages That Make Her Feel Loved
- You are so easy to love, it almost feels unfair to everyone else.
- Your laugh is my favorite sound in the entire world.
- I could listen to you talk about your day forever and never get bored.
- You make me want to plan a whole future, just so I get more days with you.
- Every text from you makes my whole day better.
- You’re the kind of beautiful that has nothing to do with how you look.
- I love how you care for the people around you — it’s one of my favorite things about you.
- You deserve every good thing headed your way, and I’ll do my best to be one of them.
- Being your person is the best job I’ve ever had.
- Happy special day to the girl who makes love look this good.
Special Day Wishes for Your Boyfriend
Heartfelt Wishes for Him
- You are the steady hand I didn’t know I needed until I had it. Happy special day, my love.
- Loving you feels like finally exhaling after holding my breath for years.
- You make me feel safe, seen, and completely myself.
- I never knew strength could look this gentle until I met you.
- You are my favorite “what if” that turned into my favorite “always.”
- Thank you for loving me the way I always hoped someone would.
- You are proof that good men still exist, and I get to love one.
- Every plan I make for the future has your name quietly written into it.
- You make hard days lighter just by being in them with me.
- Happy special day to the man who feels like home.
Deep Emotional Love Messages for Boyfriend
- You’ve held my heart with more care than I ever thought it deserved.
- I don’t just love the man you are — I love the man you’re becoming.
- You make me believe that soft, patient love is not just possible, it’s real.
- Every version of my future has your laugh in it somewhere.
- Thank you for never making me question if I’m loved enough.
- You are the peace I searched for in all the wrong places before I found you.
- Loving you has never once felt hard — that’s how I know it’s right.
- You show up for me in ways I didn’t even know I needed.
- I trust you with the parts of me no one else has ever seen.
- You are the safest place my heart has ever lived.
Romantic Messages to Make Him Feel Special
- You are the reason my heart still does that little flip after all this time.
- I fall a little more in love with you every time you smile at me like that.
- Nobody makes me feel as wanted as you do.
- You are, without question, the best decision I have ever made.
- I love you in the quiet, ordinary moments just as much as the big ones.
- Being loved by you feels like winning something every single day.
- You are my favorite person to build a life with.
- Every love song makes a little more sense now that I have you.
- I could search the whole world and still choose you every time.
- Happy special day to the man who makes forever feel like an easy promise.
Special Day Wishes for Husband or Wife
Heart-Touching Wishes for Husband
- You have loved me through every version of myself, and I fall for you more with each one.
- Being your wife/partner is the greatest privilege of my life. Happy special day, my love.
- You are still my favorite person to come home to, every single day.
- Thank you for choosing me, again and again, on the easy days and the hard ones.
- Our life together isn’t perfect, but it’s exactly the one I’d choose every time.
- You are the steady heartbeat behind everything good in my life.
- I love the life we’ve quietly built together, one ordinary day at a time.
- You make growing older feel like something to look forward to, not fear.
- Thank you for being my partner in every real sense of the word.
- Happy special day to the man I still fall in love with, over and over.
Romantic Wishes for Wife
- You have made our house a home just by being in it. Happy special day, my love.
- Loving you only gets deeper with every year we spend together.
- You are still the most beautiful part of my everyday life.
- Thank you for being my best friend and my greatest love, all at once.
- I fall for you in new ways every single year we’re together.
- You make even the hardest seasons of life feel survivable.
- Every memory I cherish most has you somewhere in it.
- You are proof that real love only grows stronger with time.
- Thank you for building this life with me, one beautiful day at a time.
- Happy special day to the woman who is still, and will always be, my favorite.
Messages for a Lifelong Partner
- Through every chapter of our life, you’ve been my favorite part of the story.
- I don’t just love who you are today — I love who we’ve become together.
- Thank you for being my constant through every change life has thrown at us.
- Growing old with you is the only plan I’ve ever truly wanted.
- You are proof that real love isn’t loud, it’s steady.
- Every year with you feels like a gift I didn’t know I needed until I had it.
- Thank you for being my home, no matter where life takes us.
- You have loved me through my best and worst, and I am endlessly grateful.
- Here’s to more years of building this beautiful, ordinary, extraordinary life together.
- You are still my person, after everything, after everyone, after everything.
Special Day Wishes for a Fiancé or Fiancée

Sweet Wishes for Your Fiancé
- Every day brings me closer to becoming your wife, and my heart couldn’t be happier.
- You are the calm, steady love I always hoped I’d find. Happy special day, my love.
- I can’t wait to spend forever building a life with you.
- Being engaged to you feels like the beginning of my favorite story.
- You are proof that patience and love always find their way to each other.
- Every day with you feels like a rehearsal for the beautiful life we’re about to build.
- I love watching us plan our future, one small decision at a time.
- Thank you for being the person I get to say “I do” to, someday soon.
- You make waiting for forever feel completely worth it.
- Happy special day to my favorite person and my future husband.
Romantic Messages for Your Fiancée
- Every day that brings us closer to our wedding feels like a gift.
- You are the love I prayed for and the future I can’t wait to live.
- I fall more in love with you every time I imagine our life together.
- Being engaged to you is the happiest kind of waiting I’ve ever known.
- You are proof that some love stories really do end in “happily ever after.”
- I can’t wait to spend the rest of my life making you this happy.
- Every wedding plan we make feels like another promise I get to keep.
- Thank you for saying yes to a lifetime with me.
- You are my present and my whole beautiful future.
- Happy special day to my favorite person and my soon-to-be wife.
Wishes for Your Future Husband or Wife
- I can’t wait to call you my husband/wife and mean it for the rest of my life.
- You are the forever I never want to rush, but can’t wait to reach.
- Every day brings us closer to the life we’ve been dreaming about together.
- Thank you for being patient with me as we build toward our forever.
- I love the life we’re planning, one small step at a time.
- You are proof that good things really are worth waiting for.
- Our wedding day will just be the start of a lifetime I already can’t wait for.
- I choose you today, and I’ll choose you again on every day after.
- You are the best “yes” I’ve ever said.
- Happy special day to my favorite person and my forever future.
Special Day Wishes for Long-Distance Lovers
Emotional Long-Distance Love Messages
- The miles between us are hard, but they’ve never once changed how much I love you.
- Distance has taught me that love isn’t about being near someone — it’s about never letting go.
- I may not be able to hold your hand today, but my heart is right there with you.
- Every mile between us just makes me appreciate our time together even more.
- You are worth every long call, every time difference, every moment of missing you.
- Loving you from far away has only made my love for you grow stronger.
- Distance is temporary, but what we have is built to last.
- I carry you with me everywhere, even when you’re miles away.
- No amount of distance could ever make me love you any less.
- Happy special day, my love — today, the distance feels a little smaller because I’m thinking only of you.
Romantic Wishes When You Can’t Be Together
- I wish I could hug you right now, but until then, know that my heart is holding you tight.
- Even from here, you are still the first thing I think of every morning.
- One day the distance ends, but my love for you never will.
- I may not be there to celebrate with you, but you are the only person on my mind today.
- Every video call with you feels like a small piece of home.
- Missing you has become one of the most familiar feelings I know, but so has loving you.
- I count down the days until “I miss you” turns into “I’m right here.”
- Until I can hold you again, just know you’re the reason I smile at my phone like an idiot.
- Distance can delay our plans, but it will never change my heart.
- Happy special day, love — today I’m sending you all the love I can’t hand-deliver yet.
Short Messages for Missing Your Partner
- Missing you more than usual today.
- Wish you were here with me right now.
- Counting the days until I see you.
- My heart is with you, always.
- You’re never far from my thoughts.
- Distance sucks, but you’re worth it.
- Can’t wait to hold you again.
- Loving you from right here, always.
- Miles apart, hearts together.
- Thinking of you today, my love.
First Special Day Together
First Valentine or Special Occasion Together
- Our first special day together already feels like the start of something beautiful.
- I didn’t know I could feel this happy this early into loving someone.
- This is only our first special day together, and I already can’t imagine my life without you.
- Thank you for making our first celebration together one I’ll never forget.
- I’m so grateful this is just the first of many special days we’ll share.
- Falling for you has been the easiest, happiest thing I’ve ever done.
- Our story is just beginning, and I already know it’s going to be beautiful.
- This first special day with you already feels like a memory I’ll treasure forever.
- I can’t wait to see how much more in love we fall from here.
- Happy first special day together, my love — here’s to many, many more.
Sweet First-Time Relationship Messages
- I still can’t believe how lucky I am to be falling for you.
- Every new thing about us feels exciting, and I love discovering it with you.
- Being with you still feels a little like a dream I don’t want to wake up from.
- I love how easy it is to be myself around you already.
- This relationship is new, but my feelings for you already feel certain.
- I never expected to feel this happy this early, but here we are.
- You make even the early, nervous parts of love feel exciting.
- I’m so glad I get to figure out “us” with you.
- Every day with you teaches me something new to love.
- Happy special day, love — here’s to all the firsts we still get to share.
Romantic Wishes for a New Relationship
- I’m falling for you slowly, and I’m enjoying every single second of it.
- You’ve made the beginning of us feel like the safest place to be.
- I love learning the little things that make you, you.
- This is new for both of us, but loving you already feels natural.
- Every date with you makes me more certain about “us.”
- I can already tell this is the start of something really special.
- You make new love feel exciting instead of scary.
- I’m grateful for every small moment that’s brought us closer.
- I don’t know where this goes, but I know I want to find out with you.
- Happy special day to the person who’s made falling in love feel effortless again.
Special Day Wishes for Different Relationships and Occasions

Anniversary Wishes for Your Lover
- Another year with you, and I still fall in love with you all over again.
- Thank you for loving me through every year, every change, every chapter.
- Our anniversary is proof that real love only gets stronger with time.
- I’d choose this life, this love, and you — again and again, every single year.
- Here’s to another year of building something beautiful together.
- You are still my favorite “yes” after all this time.
- Loving you has been the best decision I’ve made, year after year.
- Happy anniversary to the love that keeps getting better with time.
- Every year with you adds another beautiful chapter to our story.
- Here’s to us, and to many more years of falling for you.
Birthday Wishes for Your Partner
- Happy birthday to the person who makes every day feel like a celebration.
- On your special day, I just want you to know how deeply loved you are.
- Another year older, and somehow even more incredible. Happy birthday, my love.
- Today, the world celebrates the same person I get to love every single day.
- Happy birthday to my favorite person and my forever love.
- I hope your birthday is as amazing as you make my every day feel.
- Here’s to celebrating you today and every day after.
- You deserve all the love and joy this birthday brings, and so much more.
- Happy birthday, my love — thank you for being born, honestly.
- Today is about you, and I couldn’t be happier to celebrate the love of my life.
Engagement and Relationship Milestone Wishes
- Every milestone with you feels like another reason to fall deeper in love.
- From our first date to this moment, every step with you has been worth it.
- I’m so proud of the life we’ve built together, one milestone at a time.
- Here’s to celebrating how far we’ve come, and how much further we’ll go.
- Every “us” milestone reminds me how lucky I am to have found you.
- Thank you for growing with me through every big moment of our relationship.
- I love looking back at how much we’ve grown together.
- Here’s to us, and to every beautiful milestone still ahead.
- Every step forward with you feels like the right one.
- Happy special day, my love — here’s to celebrating just how far we’ve come.
Just Because You Want to Make Them Feel Special
- No occasion needed — I just wanted you to know how loved you are today.
- Some days deserve celebrating simply because you exist in my life.
- Just a reminder that you are deeply, completely loved.
- Today isn’t a special date, but you make every day feel like one.
- I woke up thinking about you, so I figured you should know.
- No reason, just love — that’s what today is about.
- You deserve to feel special even on the most ordinary days.
- Just wanted to remind you how much you mean to me.
- Some love needs no occasion — this is one of those messages.
- Happy “just because” day to the person who makes every day feel special.
Short Special Day Wishes for Your Lover
One-Line Love Wishes
- You’re my favorite person, always.
- Loving you is the easiest thing I do.
- My heart is, and always will be, yours.
- You make my world so much brighter.
- Simply put — I’m so lucky to have you.
- You’re my today, my tomorrow, my always.
- Every day with you is a good one.
- You are my favorite kind of love.
- Happy special day to my forever person.
- You + me, always and forever.
Sweet Text Messages for Your Partner
- Just thinking of you and smiling like an idiot.
- You make my whole day better, just by existing.
- Missing you already, and it’s only been an hour.
- Can’t wait to see you later, my love.
- You’re the best part of my day, every day.
- Sending you all my love right now.
- Thinking about you more than I probably should today.
- You’re stuck with me forever, hope that’s okay.
- Just wanted to say I love you, no reason needed.
- You make ordinary days feel special.
Special Day Wishes for WhatsApp and Text
- Happy special day, my love — you deserve all the good things today.
- Sending you love, hugs, and all my heart today.
- Today is about celebrating you, and I’m so happy to be part of it.
- You make my life better just by being in it — happy special day.
- Wishing you the happiest special day, my favorite person.
- Sending you a virtual hug and all my love today.
- Hope your day is as wonderful as you make mine.
- Happy special day to the one who has my whole heart.
- Just a quick message to remind you how loved you are.
- Celebrating you today and always, my love.
Heart-Touching Love Messages That Go Beyond “I Love You”
Deep Messages About Gratitude
- Thank you for loving me exactly as I am, flaws and all.
- I don’t say it enough, but I am so grateful for you every single day.
- Thank you for being patient with me, even when I don’t deserve it.
- I’m grateful for every ordinary day I get to spend loving you.
- Thank you for choosing me, over and over, without ever making me feel small.
- I don’t take a single day with you for granted.
- Thank you for making love feel this safe and this simple.
- I’m grateful for every version of you I’ve been lucky enough to know.
- Thank you for staying, even on the days I made it hard to.
- I am endlessly grateful that out of everyone, I found you.
Messages About Growing Together
- I love who we’ve become together, just as much as who we were when we started.
- Growing with you has taught me more about love than I ever expected.
- We’ve changed so much, but somehow we’ve only grown closer.
- I love watching us figure life out, one messy, beautiful year at a time.
- Thank you for growing with me instead of apart from me.
- Every version of “us” has taught me something new about love.
- We’ve built something real, one small change at a time.
- I’m proud of the people we’ve become, together.
- Growing up with you by my side has made all the difference.
- Here’s to growing old and growing better, side by side.
Emotional Messages About Your Future Together
- Every plan I make for my future has you standing right in the middle of it.
- I can’t wait to build a whole life with you, one day at a time.
- The future feels less scary knowing I get to face it with you.
- I dream about our future often, and it always makes me smile.
- Whatever comes next, I just want it to include you.
- You are the “forever” I never want to change my mind about.
- I can already picture growing old right beside you.
- Our best days are still ahead of us, and I can’t wait to live them.
- With you, the future finally feels like something to look forward to.
- I choose a future with you, every single time I imagine one.
Messages for When You Miss Your Partner
- Missing you has become one of my least favorite feelings, second only to being without you.
- I miss you more today than usual, and I just wanted you to know.
- Every quiet moment today has been filled with thoughts of you.
- I miss your voice, your laugh, your presence — all of it.
- Today felt a little incomplete without you around.
- I miss you in the smallest, most ordinary ways today.
- Wishing you were here to share this moment with me.
- Missing you reminds me just how much you mean to me.
- I can’t wait until missing you turns into holding you again.
- You’re the one person I never stop thinking about, especially today.
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Special Day Captions and Love Quotes
Romantic Captions for Couples
- Two hearts, one beautiful story.
- Still falling for you, every single day.
- My favorite hello, my hardest goodbye.
- Better together, always.
- Found my forever in you.
- Love looks a lot like you.
- Every love story is beautiful, but ours is my favorite.
- Made for each other, one messy day at a time.
- My person, my peace, my forever.
- Us, always and forever.
Short Love Quotes for Instagram
- You had me at hello.
- Loving you is my favorite adventure.
- Home is wherever you are.
- My heart chose you, and I’m glad it did.
- Forever isn’t long enough with you.
- You’re my favorite notification.
- Love you more than yesterday.
- You are my calm and my chaos.
- Simply, unapologetically, yours.
- My heart is happiest with you.
Emotional Couple Captions
- Through every high and low, it’s always been you.
- We weren’t perfect, but we were real — and that mattered more.
- Here’s to loving someone who feels like home.
- Every scar, every scare, every second — worth it, because of you.
- You loved me at my worst, and I’ll never forget that.
- Our story isn’t perfect, but it’s ours, and I wouldn’t trade it.
- Real love isn’t loud — it’s steady, patient, and kind, just like ours.
- Grateful for every quiet, ordinary, beautiful day with you.
- We built something real, and I’m proud of every piece of it.
- Still choosing you, after everything.
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How to Write a Special Day Message Your Lover Will Actually Remember
The best special day wishes aren’t the fanciest ones — they’re the ones that sound like you, talking to your partner. A few practical pointers to help you get there:
If the relationship is new: Keep it light and honest rather than overly dramatic. Something like “I’m still figuring us out, but I already know I like where this is going” feels far more genuine than a heavy declaration of forever. New relationships are built on comfort, not intensity — let the message reflect that.
If you’re writing for a husband or wife: Lean into shared history instead of generic romance. Mention something real — a memory, an inside joke, a hard season you got through together. “Another year with you, and I still choose this life we’ve built” says more than any generic line ever could.
If your partner is long-distance: Mention the distance naturally instead of avoiding it or overdramatizing it. A simple, honest line like “The miles are hard, but they’ve never once made me love you less” acknowledges the reality without turning the whole message into a complaint.
If you want it emotional without being over the top: Anchor the message in something specific and true, not a string of big words. “You make my ordinary days feel steadier” will always land better than a message packed with exaggerated declarations that don’t actually sound like you.
If you’re choosing between a short text, a card, or an Instagram caption: Match the length to the medium. A text should be one or two warm lines you’d actually send. A card has room for two to three sentences that feel complete on their own. A caption should be short, quotable, and work without extra context — think one strong line, not a paragraph.
If you want to personalize any wish on this list: Swap in one specific detail — a nickname, a shared memory, an inside joke, something only the two of you would understand. That one small addition is usually the difference between a message that sounds like a template and one that sounds like it could only have been written for them.
Frequently Asked Questions About Special Day Wishes for Lovers
What Is a Heart-Touching Special Day Wish for a Lover?
A heart-touching wish is one that goes beyond a generic greeting and speaks to something real about the relationship — gratitude, a shared memory, or an honest feeling — rather than relying only on romantic clichés.
How Do I Write a Meaningful Message for Someone I Love?
Start with something true and specific about your relationship, keep the language simple rather than overly poetic, and end with a clear, warm sentiment. Meaningful messages usually sound like something you’d actually say out loud.
What Can I Say to Make My Partner Feel Special?
Acknowledge something specific you appreciate about them, rather than a general compliment. Naming an actual quality, memory, or habit you love makes a message feel personal instead of generic.
What Is a Good Special Day Message for a Long-Distance Lover?
The best long-distance messages acknowledge the distance honestly while reaffirming commitment — something that says “this is hard, but you’re worth it” rather than pretending the distance doesn’t exist.
What Should I Write to My Boyfriend on a Special Day?
Focus on how he makes you feel — safe, supported, happy — rather than only complimenting his appearance or achievements. Emotional specificity tends to land better than generic romantic lines.
What Should I Write to My Girlfriend on a Special Day?
A mix of appreciation and warmth usually works best — acknowledging her personality, her kindness, or the way she makes everyday life better, alongside a simple, genuine expression of love.
How Can I Make a Love Message More Personal?
Add one specific detail only the two of you would recognize — a nickname, an inside joke, a memory, or a shared plan for the future. That single detail is often what separates a personal message from a generic one.
What Is a Short but Deep Message for My Partner?
Short doesn’t have to mean shallow. A line like “You are my favorite kind of home” or “Still choosing you, always” can carry real emotional weight in very few words.
Can I Use These Wishes for an Anniversary or Birthday?
Yes. Most of these wishes are written to be flexible — anniversary and birthday-specific sections are included, but many of the emotional and romantic messages throughout the list work well for either occasion with a small tweak.
What Should I Write in a Special Day Card for My Husband or Wife?
Cards have a little more room than a text, so use two to three sentences: one that reflects on your history together, one that expresses current gratitude, and one that looks toward the future.
Final Thoughts on Special Day Wishes for Your Lover
At the end of the day, no wish on this list — no matter how beautifully worded — matters as much as the intention behind it. The right message is simply the one that sounds like you, said to the person who matters most. Use these 350+ special day wishes as a starting point, personalize the ones that feel closest to your relationship, and let your partner feel exactly how loved they are, today and always.